That’s right – unconditional okayness right here, right now. Why? Because there will always be a reason to not be okay and life is way too short to dwell on it.

Think about how many conditions you have in order to be happy: Money conditions, health conditions, relationship conditions, world conditions, business conditions, and so on. With all these requirements is it possible to even be happy for more than a second?

If these requirements inspired us to live better lives than maybe I would encourage it – but it does the exact opposite! It keeps us stuck in the same pattern of always looking ahead before we allow ourselves to be happy. It’s like a mirage in the desert with the promise of water always on the horizon. Guess what? You never end up getting it. It’s just the way mirages work. It’s also how the mind works too. Our minds love telling us that our happiness is in the future because that’s how it stays strong and in control. Little bugger…

Okay just take a snap-shot right now of your life, the good, the bad and the ugly. Now really accept it just as it is even if it’s ‘under construction’. Enjoy this stage completely because you will never get to have it once it’s gone. That doesn’t mean don’t take action or be totally passive. It’s just the reality of the present moment, why fight it?

Being okay with whatever doesn’t mean being emotionally flat lined either. By all means have your ups, downs and live life fully. But while you are riding those waves always remember that the moment is perfect as it is.

True, real joy doesn’t require any reason to be experienced. It is always here waiting for us to notice it and it’s a choice. What will you choose?

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